What to Expect During Your Engagement Photo Session: A Step-by-Step Guide

An engagement photo session is one of the most exciting and memorable experiences during your wedding journey. It's a chance to capture the joy, love, and excitement you and your partner share as you embark on this new chapter together, without all the pressure and distractions of your wedding day. But if you've never had professional photos taken before, you might be wondering: What exactly should we expect during the session?

No need to worry! Here’s a comprehensive guide on what to expect before, during, and after your engagement photo session, so you can relax, enjoy the experience, and get the most out of your time in front of the camera.

1. Pre-Session Planning For Your Engagement Photo Session: Getting Ready for the Big Day

Before the photo session, I will reach out to you to discuss the details. This is the perfect time to ask any questions you may have, and to make sure everyone is on the same page. Here’s what to expect:

Choosing the Location

I will probably ask you about your preferences when it comes to the location of the shoot. Popular choices include:

• Outdoor settings: Mountains, High Altitude Valleys and Meadows, Lake Settings, Parks, Beaches, Forests, or Urban Areas can provide beautiful backdrops.

• Urban settings: City streets, landmarks, and rooftop views are great for a more modern or dramatic feel.

• Home or sentimental spots: If you have a special place where you first met or where you love to spend time together, consider using it as the backdrop.

  
  

Think about what feels authentic to you as a couple, whether it’s something more natural or somewhere that holds sentimental value.

Outfit Planning

I will likely recommend that you bring a few outfits, depending on the vibe you want to go for. You don’t need to overdo it, but a good rule of thumb is to:

• Choose two to three outfits that fit the location and the vibe you want (casual, semi-formal, or more formal). If we're doing outfit changes we'll have something setup for you use for changing.

• Opt for complementary colors instead of matching outfits (avoid being too “matchy-matchy” unless that's the look you're going for).

• Avoid busy patterns or large logos that could distract from your faces.

• Keep comfort in mind—if you’re not comfortable in your clothes, it will show in your photos!

  
  

Hair and Makeup

Some couples choose to have their hair and makeup professionally done for their engagement shoot, while others prefer a more natural look. I can help find the perfect stylist if that's the route you'd like to go. Either way, make sure you feel like yourself. You don’t need to go over-the-top; a simple, polished look can be just as stunning as something more elaborate.

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2. During the Session: What Will Happen When You Arrive?

When you arrive at your photo location, I will walk you through the session to make sure you’re comfortable. Here’s what to expect as the shoot unfolds:

Relax and Get Comfortable

My goal is to make you feel as relaxed as possible, so the session won’t feel like a stiff, posed event. You’ll likely start by chatting a bit about your relationship, what brought you to the location, and how you met. This can help you feel more at ease and ready to show off your natural connection. Jokes are also a good way to break the ice and get everyone in the mood to get some incredible shots!

Candid Shots and Natural Poses

One of the biggest misconceptions about engagement sessions is that they’re all about stiff, unnatural poses. In reality, I will direct you to capture candid moments—laughing, walking, holding hands, or just enjoying each other’s company.

• Walking shots: Often, I will ask you to walk hand-in-hand, capturing the movement as you interact with one another. This is one of the most natural and beautiful ways to showcase your connection.

• Close-up shots: Expect to take some shots where you’re close together, looking at each other, or laughing/kissing/etc.—these moments highlight your genuine affection.

• Comfortable poses: I will guide you into poses that are flattering and natural, such as a gentle embrace, sharing a quiet moment, or leaning in for a kiss.
  

Guided Posing with Flexibility

While some poses may be directed, I will also encourage you to interact with each other in a way that feels true to your relationship. For example, you might be told to "look into each other’s eyes" or "whisper something funny to each other." This helps you feel more connected and less staged. Remember, the goal is for the photos to feel authentic and show the real, loving bond you share as a couple...and less about standing in front of a photographer and camera.

Time for Breaks

A good photographer knows how to pace the session. If you’re feeling nervous, tired, or even hot (depending on the location), I will suggest taking a short break. This is also a great time to rehydrate, touch up your makeup, or change outfits if you’ve planned multiple looks.

3. The Photographer’s Role: More Than Just Taking Photos

Expect me to be an active guide during the session. I’ll coach you through how to position your bodies for the most flattering angles, help you adjust your posture, and make sure you’re feeling comfortable throughout. All you have to do is be open to some gentle direction and the rest will be easy!

Don’t worry if you don’t know how to pose or feel awkward at times—that’s one of the things I'm there for. I will often give gentle cues, like “lean in a little,” “give a little more space,” or “look at her like you just met.” These small adjustments can make a huge difference in how the final photos turn out.

4. What If We’re Nervous?

Let's be honest, most people don't like being in front of a camera. It’s completely normal to feel nervous or a bit self-conscious, especially if it’s your first time having professional photos taken. I will work with you to make you feel comfortable:

• Talk to your photographer: Let me know if you’re nervous or unsure about anything. I'm experienced at working with couples who feel a bit camera-shy.

• Go with the flow: It’s okay if things aren’t perfect—laughter, candid moments, and real emotions make for the best photos.

• Bring props or ideas: If you’re feeling particularly nervous, think about bringing something that helps you relax—whether it’s a blanket, a book, a pet, or even a favorite song you can play during the shoot.

  
  

5. The Final Touches: Wrapping Up

At the end of the session, I will likely take a few final “closing shots,” maybe of you both walking away hand-in-hand or sharing one last kiss. Once that’s done, I’ll give you an idea of when to expect your photos—typically within a few weeks, depending on my shoot schedule.

6. After the Session: What Happens Next?

Once the session is over, I will begin the editing process:

• Edit the images to enhance lighting, color balance, and overall quality. This can take a few weeks, so be patient!

• Deliver your photos via an online gallery, where you can download high-quality images or order prints.

  
  

I also offer albums or other keepsake items that you can use to commemorate your engagement.

Final Thoughts: Enjoy the Experience!

Your engagement photo session is more than just about getting beautiful pictures—it’s about celebrating the love and connection you share with your partner. While it’s natural to feel a bit nervous, remember that this is your time to have fun and make memories. Relax, enjoy the moment, and let me help you create timeless images that you’ll treasure forever.

So take a deep breath, smile, and let the love you share shine through—it’s going to be an experience you’ll never forget!